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BumRushDaShow

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15. What you describe is not too dissimilar from
Thu Aug 13, 2015, 11:34 AM
Aug 2015

that experienced by many older blacks who had migrated north to escape the oppression in the south (although northern oppression was rampant as well but in a different form). However they still wanted to touch base with their relatives who remained. And this brought about a quandary regarding safety when traveling around.

We once lived next door to an older professional black couple who were southerners with PhDs and whose own parents were physicians or dentists (they would be nearing their 100s now if they had still been alive). Yet when they made the annual trek by car back down south, the husband had to don a "chauffeur's cap" to help avoid being targeted once he crossed the Mason-Dixon Line. And we're talking all the way up into the 1990s. And God forbid, don't be a black male with a white (or even "white-looking&quot woman in the car - again, unless you don "the cap" - literal "Driving Miss Daisy" style. See the ridiculously touted "Birth of a Nation" and "Gone With the Wind" for part of the problem of engraining stereotypes (let alone much of the modern entertainment fare that continues the perpetuation).

We are talking literal cultural conditioning that has so permeated into the fabric of the United States that it will probably take a century or more to eradicate the stench.

Just remember. [View all] Coolest Ranger Aug 2015 OP
I'm listening and learning. PeaceNikki Aug 2015 #1
I can do more than that. stone space Aug 2015 #2
Some times "white pass" doesn't work. DemocratSinceBirth Aug 2015 #9
We were swimming at a local swimming hole once. stone space Aug 2015 #11
I told this story before here... DemocratSinceBirth Aug 2015 #13
What you describe is not too dissimilar from BumRushDaShow Aug 2015 #15
My husband noted that same thing JustAnotherGen Aug 2015 #16
So well said mcar Aug 2015 #3
Thanks for describing how we lack the privilege of living within a cocoon of white normality MrScorpio Aug 2015 #4
thank you ellennelle Aug 2015 #5
k&r Starry Messenger Aug 2015 #6
K&R. nt tblue37 Aug 2015 #7
Well written winterwar Aug 2015 #8
Thank you for laying this all out so clearly. I'm just an old white guy. 99th_Monkey Aug 2015 #10
Thanks for the post! ybbor Aug 2015 #12
A Kick and A Rec for the East Coast Lunch Hour JustAnotherGen Aug 2015 #14
Kick for the east coast after work crowd Starry Messenger Aug 2015 #17
Thanks, CR, needs to be posted in the paper or on Thom Hartmann's show. freshwest Aug 2015 #18
Damn straight! JustAnotherGen Aug 2015 #20
A late day kick JustAnotherGen Aug 2015 #19
This message was self-deleted by its author Nye Bevan Aug 2015 #21
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