I recently found out that a visitor to my home considers me a racist ...

[JustAnotherGen]

188. Stop and Frisk

Its standard operating procedure in America for black men. He has had to deal with a policy imposed by white Americans on black Americans in the largest City in America - in NY state - not the South.

1Strong so far as I know can't comprehend the experience of black Africans.

I can't either. Trying to get at the definition of a black American man by bringing up folks in Africa makes no sense.

He's a black man in the South West who shared an experience with a white American teenager. She said he was racist.

And some of my experiences with black Africans is that they don't view the descendents of slaves in America as the same as them. Ghana, South Africa, Rwanda and Senegal where we're they hailed from.

It was my dorm mate Bernadette (from South Africa) that told me I smelled like a dog when I got out of the shower. She didn't realize was black - but almost 25 years ago a young black woman from South Africa wasn't being racist. She'd never been around a Caucasian hair type freshly shampooed and it can be a nauseating smell. I mean - I felt badly but that's very minor compared to having your mother called a n*gger lover on the playground by a white kid.