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The Roux Comes First

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3. May I Add the Folks in Love with Their Own Voice?

Reply to erronis (Reply #2)

Fri Dec 19, 2025, 12:52 AM

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I struggle a bit at times with this, working at being a good listener. Some voices are truly impressive, charismatic, and etc. But we all have encountered blowhards who can barely stop for breath for fear some other fabulous "voice" will steal the mic.

Get over yourselves, already! Challenge yourself to listen better and gain some understanding of the speaker, hopefully someone with a message rather than just another vain voice.

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Good listeners connect more easily with strangers, study finds [View all] erronis Thursday OP

In My Admittedly Limited Experience, the Gift of Good Listening is One of the Least Democratically- The Roux Comes First Thursday #1

I know when I hear someone spouting I stop listening. You can tell it's a spout by the programmed patter. erronis Thursday #2

May I Add the Folks in Love with Their Own Voice? The Roux Comes First Friday #3

I'd guess that must be the reason that my wife gets so many details of other people's lives. NNadir Friday #4