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justiceischeap

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11. I had a younger girlfriend once
Thu Jun 30, 2016, 02:48 PM
Jun 2016

I was early 30's and she was early 20's. We were having brunch one morning and she told me she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me. I remember chuckling (bad move, I know). However, I told her that her life and outlook is going to change so much by the time she hits 30 that she wouldn't believe it.

We broke up a few months later 'cause the relationship required some work--I.e., we left the honeymoon phase and she realized that it wasn't as much fun.

She's now in a completely different career, dating men and her life couldn't be any more different than it was when we had that conversation.

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K&R nt. NCTraveler Jun 2016 #1
K&R! DemonGoddess Jun 2016 #2
Here is a recent article in which she acknowledges her mistake from eight years ago: athena Jun 2016 #3
Thanks, athena! pnwmom Jun 2016 #13
Your judgment is better than hers--they should hire YOU! nt MADem Jun 2016 #4
Dang. You hold a grudge for a long time... Orsino Jun 2016 #5
I had forgotten till she brought it up La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2016 #6
I commend your foresight from eight years ago, LLP! Unfortunately, young women haven't learned BlueCaliDem Jun 2016 #7
i think they don't learn till they hit late 20's early 30's La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2016 #8
It's also interesting how even women distrust what other women say.... bettyellen Jun 2016 #18
Women get raised in the same society as men La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2016 #21
Exactly the case- but people always point to them as if we are miraculously bias free bettyellen Jun 2016 #25
The other day a woman I know here in Hortensis Jul 2016 #34
Agreed. Sadly but they think they know everything at age 20. Which is why I was upset politicaljunkie41910 Jun 2016 #23
Age Brings Wisdom peggysue2 Jun 2016 #9
Unrelated but 538 do great mea culpas La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2016 #22
This is excellent, Pri -- thanks obamanut2012 Jun 2016 #10
.., La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2016 #20
I had a younger girlfriend once justiceischeap Jun 2016 #11
Lol I've been that young gf many times La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2016 #19
I have a lot of cousins that married in their early 20s tammywammy Jun 2016 #27
No one rules due to their sex. lumberjack_jeff Jun 2016 #12
Less dads than moms no doubt and women earn less than men right out of college (link) in 2016 uponit7771 Jun 2016 #15
Men -have ruled for centuries here on planet earth. The fact that you personally do not rule.... bettyellen Jun 2016 #16
lololololol obamanut2012 Jun 2016 #24
Its not even 5 - 10 years into a career its.... RIGHT OUT OF COLLEGE.... !! (link inside) uponit7771 Jun 2016 #14
Agreed rock Jun 2016 #17
I wonder how old she was when she wrote that article realmirage Jun 2016 #26
23, I think La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2016 #28
That makes sense realmirage Jul 2016 #32
Having experience and knowing shit are different things. Scootaloo Jun 2016 #29
Agreed. I mean in general. realmirage Jul 2016 #33
i wonder if she thought she was the first generation of females do well in in school JI7 Jun 2016 #30
Geez--you'd think that an article dated 2003 would mention the Iraq war eridani Jul 2016 #31
K&R! Lisa D Jul 2016 #35
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