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History of Feminism

exboyfil

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1. The mind is what turns me on

Reply to redqueen (Original post)

Tue May 15, 2012, 01:02 PM

May 2012

Give me a smart girl any day. One who can dazzle me with her brilliance. Actually I remember those girls as being highly sought after in High School. Pretty much any girl was out of my league, but I was attracted to the smart ones. The ones with doctorates now doing great things (some became lawyers). One girl in particular I would have spent significant time with if I could get past the height issue (she was 6 inches taller than me). I still have regrets on that one. Not sure she would have been interested anyway. She looked back on her High School years as hell, and I regret that (nothing I did except not step up more to be a better friend). I was so immature in High School and scared to death to talk to girls.

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Why 'I prefer small boobs' isn't helping. [View all] redqueen May 2012 OP

The mind is what turns me on exboyfil May 2012 #1

an interesting seabeyond May 2012 #4

Looks can grow in more than one direction, too arcane1 May 2012 #8

yes... agreed. i was thinking that as typing seabeyond May 2012 #9

I wonder what percentage of men would read that and actually "get it".... hlthe2b May 2012 #2

Few, I suspect. redqueen May 2012 #14

Just wondering, aren't men objectified by women? Aren't men cast in roles upaloopa May 2012 #3

Yes, it is also done to men, just 5x less often. redqueen May 2012 #11

I'm throwing this out just as another "I wonder if." upaloopa May 2012 #20

you have a point and i do love your post. seabeyond May 2012 #21

"Someone with a healthy body acceptance can't be objectified" is a meaningless statement. redqueen May 2012 #22

who casts men in those roles? iverglas May 2012 #18

Is liking GW that different than liking small boobs? unc70 May 2012 #23

heh heh iverglas May 2012 #25

Really? This is the issue you've decided to make your passion? n/t Dawgs May 2012 #5

Welcome to the History of Feminism Group. Please read the SOP. redqueen May 2012 #12

you might peruse the threads in the lounge and take a look at the one that starts seabeyond May 2012 #17

Sad. Six years old and already aware of the importance of hotness. redqueen May 2012 #19

Really? Pathetic disruption is the way to spend your time on this site? BlueIris May 2012 #24

Well how about this TexasProgresive May 2012 #6

It's good that there are so many men who see women as people and not sex objects. redqueen May 2012 #13

The final paragraph is worth clicking the link for. arcane1 May 2012 #7

ah... good for you posting this. lol. i didnt go in and read the whole. seabeyond May 2012 #10

there's often not a lot to be added ;) iverglas May 2012 #15

Your last paragrah summed it up quite well. redqueen May 2012 #16