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History of Feminism

boston bean

(36,952 posts) Thu Nov 7, 2013, 09:04 PM Nov 2013

I don't believe there is a gender war on DU [View all]

Do you?

That is much too simplistic of an explanation to describe the dynamics of the angst many of us feel.

I'm not at war with any man. I am at "war" with some of the sexist and misogynist ideas and beliefs that some hold. I'm only using the word war because that is the word some are using as in "gender war". It is more like a struggle.

How about you?

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I don't believe there is a gender war on DU [View all] boston bean Nov 2013 OP

Now just calm down, little Lady...everything is going to be alright. BlueJazz Nov 2013 #1

I don't think there's a war gollygee Nov 2013 #2

Right. I hope your not thinking I meant for anyone to shut up boston bean Nov 2013 #3

No I did not think that gollygee Nov 2013 #5

Ah yes. boston bean Nov 2013 #7

i think it is just the reality we live. war? it is how we think and in turn behave. seabeyond Nov 2013 #4

I am objecting to calling what is going on here a gender war. boston bean Nov 2013 #6

i do not think i do call it that BB. might be a good point not to. seabeyond Nov 2013 #14

But that isn't what I mean. boston bean Nov 2013 #16

i agree. it is obnoxious and a dismissal calling it a gender war. agree. nt seabeyond Nov 2013 #18

No I think it's just some people bristling at their comfort zone being challenged Arcanetrance Nov 2013 #8

I agree. And it's such a more complex issue. boston bean Nov 2013 #10

agreed. nt seabeyond Nov 2013 #15

It makes it seem that one is fighting against men. boston bean Nov 2013 #9

It seems like it's about attention to me Chiquitita Nov 2013 #11

The term makes it seem that the issue is woman against man. boston bean Nov 2013 #13

you are right. nt seabeyond Nov 2013 #19

You are right it is about a better humanity Chiquitita Nov 2013 #22

Yes thank you! I feel like sometimes I can boston bean Nov 2013 #23

Brilliant post! smirkymonkey Nov 2013 #35

No, the vast majority of men on this site are very supportive of women's rights BainsBane Nov 2013 #12

It is a small but loud group of men, their eager female cohorts, and Sheldon Cooper Nov 2013 #17

not to mention you deserve. we all are racking 'em up. lol. woke up to another this morning. seabeyond Nov 2013 #20

+1 -- Tuesday Afternoon Nov 2013 #27

it is like yesterday. we had that post on the new zealand rapist. a cop tasering woman to see her seabeyond Nov 2013 #21

It's a struggle against ignorance. Something that exists (or should) in all facets of human life. nomorenomore08 Nov 2013 #24

No ismnotwasm Nov 2013 #25

Agreed. boston bean Nov 2013 #26

Agree. There is a war, and it may be *about* gender, but it isn't one gender vs another. n/t MadrasT Nov 2013 #28

When contemporary research shows that chervilant Nov 2013 #29

Thanks Chervilant! boston bean Nov 2013 #30

later, when i have time, i want an OP with that last you have. or you can make an OP. seabeyond Nov 2013 #31

I see skirmishes but not a war. ancianita Nov 2013 #32

Nor do I believe there is a gender war GeoWilliam750 Nov 2013 #33

They find ways. BainsBane Nov 2013 #34