History of Feminism

Half-Century Man

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80. Definitive evidence

Sun May 4, 2014, 11:38 AM

May 2014

That rape is a crime of violence, not sex.
Rape has always been about the violence, the domination, the humiliation, and the shaming of another; it has never been about anything else.

Speaking as an owner/operator of a penis, there is absolutely no validity to the meme that an erect penis lowers the ability to think or made good judgments. And as an owner/operator, I am sorry you had to go through that shit.

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i really cannot get my head around, a man. a man on du,... telling me he wanted me raped. [View all] seabeyond May 2014 OP

No kidding! gopiscrap May 2014 #1

you know. !!!. thank you. ya. nt seabeyond May 2014 #7

If accurate that should be grounds if banning from du lostincalifornia May 2014 #2

He was. hrmjustin May 2014 #4

Good. Sorry you had to put up with that lostincalifornia May 2014 #5

I totally agree gopiscrap May 2014 #9

I am so sorry that happened! hrmjustin May 2014 #3

thank you justin. always. i get that. adn still. the more and more time that goes. meh.... seabeyond May 2014 #6

. hrmjustin May 2014 #8

just, are you mirt. is everyone clear, administration alike. i know you did your job. and didnt seabeyond May 2014 #92

OMG, that's just horrendous. TDale313 May 2014 #10

seabeyond TexasTowelie May 2014 #11

This message was self-deleted by its author Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #12

fuckin congressman stand on teh floor telling women to put an aspirin between her knees. seabeyond May 2014 #13

The person who said those things to you is a violent sex predator-terrorist. ladjf May 2014 #14

and you know. this is NOT the first one. another, i will be waving to again.... seabeyond May 2014 #15

and the subtle, and not so subtle, encouragement he is given by other men, on du. seabeyond May 2014 #16

The originator of the attacking post obviously has some ladjf May 2014 #17

Well said. Lock him up and throw away the key. Louisiana1976 May 2014 #51

i do not see seabeyond May 2014 #73

i am not seeing anything legally that could be done with what he said. though, anti social, for seabeyond May 2014 #72

This message was self-deleted by its author Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #18

interesting. civil. lawyers... lol. i wanted to get into the political of it. lol. i have time. seabeyond May 2014 #19

This message was self-deleted by its author Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #22

This type of crime goes beyond the scope of the DU admins. ladjf May 2014 #20

This message was self-deleted by its author Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #21

+1,000 CountAllVotes May 2014 #79

1,000,000 ismnotwasm May 2014 #43

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i hear ya. lots to think about. i will too. nt seabeyond May 2014 #25

another point. the THREE names, that are the ones kicked again, stand for women. they are feminists seabeyond May 2014 #24

This message was self-deleted by its author JTFrog May 2014 #27

I missed this JustAnotherGen May 2014 #26

One more thing ismnotwasm May 2014 #28

what picture? fuck. you mean there is more? Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #30

of course. men are all that visual (rollin eyes). that would be the racist. seabeyond May 2014 #33

so then, there was no actual picture posted? but, the words painted that visual? Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #36

no. he had to emphasize. he did put up a porn picture that illustrated a bit.... seabeyond May 2014 #37

thank god they deleted the racist picture post. Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #38

they... did not. an automatic system deletes when poster is that new. seabeyond May 2014 #39

I sat on a jury... TeeYiYi May 2014 #99

there was a pic mercuryblues May 2014 #40

That "education" meme is a cop out. boston bean May 2014 #50

Even in the event no pic was offered DonCoquixote May 2014 #57

i love your psots. always. you focus on the issue so clearly. he served on juries. seabeyond May 2014 #74

same here Tuesday Afternoon CountAllVotes May 2014 #78

they lost. yet. our reality. seabeyond May 2014 #34

In Solidarity and with Silent Support - whatever action/path you decide to take. Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #29

+1 JTFrog May 2014 #31

I am so sorry anyone would do that to you, sea. Mnemosyne May 2014 #32

This message was self-deleted by its author A-Schwarzenegger May 2014 #35

Oh my...how horrible for you to experience this, seabeyond! YoungDemCA May 2014 #41

yes. i think you are talking lower in the thread, going after feminists. this was more the seabeyond May 2014 #58

Another thing ismnotwasm May 2014 #42

Very true. YoungDemCA May 2014 #44

+1 ismnotwasm May 2014 #48

+1 million Louisiana1976 May 2014 #52

So the threat of rape is a cudgel that's always there to keep women in line. Mister Ed May 2014 #60

Yup ismnotwasm May 2014 #63

good points mister. i am glad you put this post in. as vulgar and disgusting as those words are. seabeyond May 2014 #76

this is why i really wanted an OP on it. this is what we are talking about. that is happening thru seabeyond May 2014 #75

I'm glad to see the situation was pretty quickly & appropriately dealt with.. hlthe2b May 2014 #45

Seabeyond, I saw that, and I couldn't believe it. And I couldn't believe Squinch May 2014 #46

let me raise you one squinch DonCoquixote May 2014 #61

Those two revealed themselves to be just sick beings who lack empathy and humanity. Squinch May 2014 #62

Link? PassingFair May 2014 #47

it is in this subthread seabeyond May 2014 #55

Not sorry I missed that one. UtahLib May 2014 #65

His sock posted, he watches porn daily. I think that is pretty clear and ya... seabeyond May 2014 #66

Ewww. NYC_SKP May 2014 #67

What do you mean by worse? BainsBane May 2014 #69

No, more of a general ignorance of or insensitivity toward topics and content. NYC_SKP May 2014 #70

yes. when it dawns on me what i am listening to. i had seen the video and no desire to watch. seabeyond May 2014 #91

You're very welcome. UtahLib May 2014 #68

I am appalled that it has come to this. MadrasT May 2014 #49

What rape culture? NuclearDem May 2014 #53

omg wtf??!! SummerSnow May 2014 #54

honestly DonCoquixote May 2014 #56

this is a good post don. nt seabeyond May 2014 #59

Thank you DonCoquixote May 2014 #81

Not only was VN cheered on,but his cheerleaders have sufrommich May 2014 #82

is it not funny DonCoquixote May 2014 #83

It goes beyond political party BainsBane May 2014 #85

i was off du a lot yesterday. i was not really gasping your point. not really reading that exchange. seabeyond May 2014 #87

Not only that BainsBane May 2014 #84

you stated this well, to don. another i saw yesterday. a couple men, telling me, a mom of two boys. seabeyond May 2014 #86

It takes a lot of nerve BainsBane May 2014 #88

yup. yep yep yep. nt seabeyond May 2014 #90

+1 ismnotwasm May 2014 #64

Wow! That is some pretty nasty shit. No excuse whatsoever for that behavior. Flatulo May 2014 #71

call the authorities seabeyond CountAllVotes May 2014 #77

"before his sick mind does something to a real person!" from daily use, to creating his own. seabeyond May 2014 #93

Definitive evidence Half-Century Man May 2014 #80

" Definitive evidence That rape is a crime of violence, not sex." thank you for this point. clearly seabeyond May 2014 #94

those that took this a step further. to legal action. i have been thinking. thanks for the wake up seabeyond May 2014 #89

Sea, this is awful to see here. I truly hope you can follow up bettyellen May 2014 #95

one of the broken men who denies rape culture exists threatened you with rape. LanternWaste May 2014 #96

I've raised the incident with a few posters BainsBane May 2014 #97

sea, abusers will say anything to hurt or get their way intaglio May 2014 #98

I can't get my head around the fact that your posts were hidden, but posts calling Monica a slut are redqueen May 2014 #100

+1 TDale313 May 2014 #101

Yup ismnotwasm May 2014 #103

Kudos to you, sea, for your strength and courage. riqster May 2014 #102

That is beyond words get the red out May 2014 #104

"An attack, not just on you, but all women who dare to speak." redqueen May 2014 #106

Very sorry, sb. Feral Child May 2014 #105