i was off du a lot yesterday. i was not really gasping your point. not really reading that exchange. (Reply #87)

In the discussion thread: i really cannot get my head around, a man. a man on du,... telling me he wanted me raped. [View all]

Response to BainsBane (Reply #85)

Mon May 5, 2014, 09:15 AM

seabeyond (110,159 posts)

87. i was off du a lot yesterday. i was not really gasping your point. not really reading that exchange.

i listen to what you say here, and ya. duh. really? and ya... to all you say. the silence....

here the crickets in the wind.

very interesting. fug. i just came seeing more and more interesting. that is why i wanted to start the thread. not a fun thread for sure. but... "Teachable moments," i will take it. it has taught me a hell of a lot. as did another thread, that has crickets... my 200 girls. that has been a huge "Teachable moments," for me.

just makes me that much smarter. grounded. strong. articulate and precise.

kick ass ready

so, the guys..... may not want to embrace the teachable moment, but.... even in their silence, cause i love to learn to get that much better, i will take that "Teachable moments,"

then???

just get louder, bolder, stronger.

it is all good.

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106 replies	Author	Time	Post
i really cannot get my head around, a man. a man on du,... telling me he wanted me raped. [View all]	seabeyond	May 2014	OP
No kidding!	gopiscrap	May 2014	#1
you know. !!!. thank you. ya. nt	seabeyond	May 2014	#7
If accurate that should be grounds if banning from du	lostincalifornia	May 2014	#2
He was.	hrmjustin	May 2014	#4
Good. Sorry you had to put up with that	lostincalifornia	May 2014	#5
I totally agree	gopiscrap	May 2014	#9
I am so sorry that happened!	hrmjustin	May 2014	#3
thank you justin. always. i get that. adn still. the more and more time that goes. meh....	seabeyond	May 2014	#6
.	hrmjustin	May 2014	#8
just, are you mirt. is everyone clear, administration alike. i know you did your job. and didnt	seabeyond	May 2014	#92
OMG, that's just horrendous.	TDale313	May 2014	#10
seabeyond	TexasTowelie	May 2014	#11
This message was self-deleted by its author	Tuesday Afternoon	May 2014	#12
fuckin congressman stand on teh floor telling women to put an aspirin between her knees.	seabeyond	May 2014	#13
The person who said those things to you is a violent sex predator-terrorist.	ladjf	May 2014	#14
and you know. this is NOT the first one. another, i will be waving to again....	seabeyond	May 2014	#15
and the subtle, and not so subtle, encouragement he is given by other men, on du.	seabeyond	May 2014	#16
The originator of the attacking post obviously has some	ladjf	May 2014	#17
Well said. Lock him up and throw away the key.	Louisiana1976	May 2014	#51
i do not see	seabeyond	May 2014	#73
i am not seeing anything legally that could be done with what he said. though, anti social, for	seabeyond	May 2014	#72
This message was self-deleted by its author	Tuesday Afternoon	May 2014	#18
interesting. civil. lawyers... lol. i wanted to get into the political of it. lol. i have time.	seabeyond	May 2014	#19
This message was self-deleted by its author	Tuesday Afternoon	May 2014	#22
This type of crime goes beyond the scope of the DU admins.	ladjf	May 2014	#20
This message was self-deleted by its author	Tuesday Afternoon	May 2014	#21
+1,000	CountAllVotes	May 2014	#79
1,000,000	ismnotwasm	May 2014	#43
This message was self-deleted by its author	Tuesday Afternoon	May 2014	#23
i hear ya. lots to think about. i will too. nt	seabeyond	May 2014	#25
another point. the THREE names, that are the ones kicked again, stand for women. they are feminists	seabeyond	May 2014	#24
This message was self-deleted by its author	JTFrog	May 2014	#27
I missed this	JustAnotherGen	May 2014	#26
One more thing	ismnotwasm	May 2014	#28
what picture? fuck. you mean there is more?	Tuesday Afternoon	May 2014	#30
of course. men are all that visual (rollin eyes). that would be the racist.	seabeyond	May 2014	#33
so then, there was no actual picture posted? but, the words painted that visual?	Tuesday Afternoon	May 2014	#36
no. he had to emphasize. he did put up a porn picture that illustrated a bit....	seabeyond	May 2014	#37
thank god they deleted the racist picture post.	Tuesday Afternoon	May 2014	#38
they... did not. an automatic system deletes when poster is that new.	seabeyond	May 2014	#39
I sat on a jury...	TeeYiYi	May 2014	#99
there was a pic	mercuryblues	May 2014	#40
That "education" meme is a cop out.	boston bean	May 2014	#50
Even in the event no pic was offered	DonCoquixote	May 2014	#57
i love your psots. always. you focus on the issue so clearly. he served on juries.	seabeyond	May 2014	#74
same here Tuesday Afternoon	CountAllVotes	May 2014	#78
they lost. yet. our reality.	seabeyond	May 2014	#34
In Solidarity and with Silent Support - whatever action/path you decide to take.	Tuesday Afternoon	May 2014	#29
+1	JTFrog	May 2014	#31
I am so sorry anyone would do that to you, sea.	Mnemosyne	May 2014	#32
This message was self-deleted by its author	A-Schwarzenegger	May 2014	#35
Oh my...how horrible for you to experience this, seabeyond!	YoungDemCA	May 2014	#41
yes. i think you are talking lower in the thread, going after feminists. this was more the	seabeyond	May 2014	#58
Another thing	ismnotwasm	May 2014	#42
Very true.	YoungDemCA	May 2014	#44
+1	ismnotwasm	May 2014	#48
+1 million	Louisiana1976	May 2014	#52
So the threat of rape is a cudgel that's always there to keep women in line.	Mister Ed	May 2014	#60
Yup	ismnotwasm	May 2014	#63
good points mister. i am glad you put this post in. as vulgar and disgusting as those words are.	seabeyond	May 2014	#76
this is why i really wanted an OP on it. this is what we are talking about. that is happening thru	seabeyond	May 2014	#75
I'm glad to see the situation was pretty quickly & appropriately dealt with..	hlthe2b	May 2014	#45
Seabeyond, I saw that, and I couldn't believe it. And I couldn't believe	Squinch	May 2014	#46
let me raise you one squinch	DonCoquixote	May 2014	#61
Those two revealed themselves to be just sick beings who lack empathy and humanity.	Squinch	May 2014	#62
Link?	PassingFair	May 2014	#47
it is in this subthread	seabeyond	May 2014	#55
Not sorry I missed that one.	UtahLib	May 2014	#65
His sock posted, he watches porn daily. I think that is pretty clear and ya...	seabeyond	May 2014	#66
Ewww.	NYC_SKP	May 2014	#67
What do you mean by worse?	BainsBane	May 2014	#69
No, more of a general ignorance of or insensitivity toward topics and content.	NYC_SKP	May 2014	#70
yes. when it dawns on me what i am listening to. i had seen the video and no desire to watch.	seabeyond	May 2014	#91
You're very welcome.	UtahLib	May 2014	#68
I am appalled that it has come to this.	MadrasT	May 2014	#49
What rape culture?	NuclearDem	May 2014	#53
omg wtf??!!	SummerSnow	May 2014	#54
honestly	DonCoquixote	May 2014	#56
this is a good post don. nt	seabeyond	May 2014	#59
Thank you	DonCoquixote	May 2014	#81
Not only was VN cheered on,but his cheerleaders have	sufrommich	May 2014	#82
is it not funny	DonCoquixote	May 2014	#83
It goes beyond political party	BainsBane	May 2014	#85
i was off du a lot yesterday. i was not really gasping your point. not really reading that exchange.	seabeyond	May 2014	#87
Not only that	BainsBane	May 2014	#84
you stated this well, to don. another i saw yesterday. a couple men, telling me, a mom of two boys.	seabeyond	May 2014	#86
It takes a lot of nerve	BainsBane	May 2014	#88
yup. yep yep yep. nt	seabeyond	May 2014	#90
+1	ismnotwasm	May 2014	#64
Wow! That is some pretty nasty shit. No excuse whatsoever for that behavior.	Flatulo	May 2014	#71
call the authorities seabeyond	CountAllVotes	May 2014	#77
"before his sick mind does something to a real person!" from daily use, to creating his own.	seabeyond	May 2014	#93
Definitive evidence	Half-Century Man	May 2014	#80
" Definitive evidence That rape is a crime of violence, not sex." thank you for this point. clearly	seabeyond	May 2014	#94
those that took this a step further. to legal action. i have been thinking. thanks for the wake up	seabeyond	May 2014	#89
Sea, this is awful to see here. I truly hope you can follow up	bettyellen	May 2014	#95
one of the broken men who denies rape culture exists threatened you with rape.	LanternWaste	May 2014	#96
I've raised the incident with a few posters	BainsBane	May 2014	#97
sea, abusers will say anything to hurt or get their way	intaglio	May 2014	#98
I can't get my head around the fact that your posts were hidden, but posts calling Monica a slut are	redqueen	May 2014	#100
+1	TDale313	May 2014	#101
Yup	ismnotwasm	May 2014	#103
Kudos to you, sea, for your strength and courage.	riqster	May 2014	#102
That is beyond words	get the red out	May 2014	#104
"An attack, not just on you, but all women who dare to speak."	redqueen	May 2014	#106
Very sorry, sb.	Feral Child	May 2014	#105

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