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passiveporcupine

(8,175 posts)
137. How am I shielding myself behind a wall by asking DUer's to stop name calling?
Mon Feb 22, 2016, 10:09 PM
Feb 2016

For one thing, it's not necessary to get the point across, and for another it further alienates the very people whose minds you would like to change.

Name calling adds nothing to the conversation. The acrimony here is already bad enough. We are not helping the Dem party or the country by calling each other names here.

There should be no need to ignore anyone, nor censor the message. Inflammatory language and name calling is not required to get your point across.

I am not trying to turn this place into a day care center (although some days I have my concerns it may be one)...I use profanity and I have no problem with that, as long as it's not aimed at another DU member. Read the TOS.

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Let's make something clear... [View all] Ned_Devine Feb 2016 OP
Agree about the debating, but I have a real hard time being silent when lies are being spread. jillan Feb 2016 #1
Totally understood and agreed; but snot Feb 2016 #52
You have a point there! Guilty as charged. jillan Feb 2016 #56
Debating? bvar22 Feb 2016 #108
K&R Thank for posting Mbrow Feb 2016 #2
Proud Bernie supporter checking in! You are right LibDemAlways Feb 2016 #3
Good op .. No value in arguing, but lies must be challenged. Voice for Peace Feb 2016 #4
In the media they do, but here? Deaf ears Ned_Devine Feb 2016 #5
DU is read by many people who are not members. eomer Feb 2016 #133
I agree, lies and spin need to be countered. - eom dreamnightwind Feb 2016 #138
Definitely. Best to figure you're refuting lies for other people's sakes. BlancheSplanchnik Feb 2016 #140
Yes Rosa Luxemburg Feb 2016 #6
don't respond to the jonjon Feb 2016 #7
This message was self-deleted by its author 1000words Feb 2016 #8
Thank you, this will help us in solidarity, I like it. JudyM Feb 2016 #13
This message was self-deleted by its author 1000words Feb 2016 #61
Mind if I borrow that as well from time to time? Ed Suspicious Feb 2016 #29
This message was self-deleted by its author 1000words Feb 2016 #62
I'm happy to help make it a thing. Ed Suspicious Feb 2016 #64
Drama Llama Alert is my mental alert. Rocky the Leprechaun Feb 2016 #44
This message was self-deleted by its author 1000words Feb 2016 #63
I added many names to my list today. Yuugal Feb 2016 #9
How can we expect them to not be nasty passiveporcupine Feb 2016 #94
Bot is bad now? Yuugal Feb 2016 #116
bot means robot...non-thinking automaton. passiveporcupine Feb 2016 #117
I on the other hand don't give a crap what they call me. The best way to combat rhett o rick Feb 2016 #124
I don't really care what they call me either passiveporcupine Feb 2016 #143
Get a thicker skin. We are all democrats even those on the fence bjobotts Feb 2016 #136
How am I shielding myself behind a wall by asking DUer's to stop name calling? passiveporcupine Feb 2016 #137
I have just now decided to do that. It will be the best hour ever spent! JimDandy Feb 2016 #112
Can't debate(argue) Old Codger Feb 2016 #10
Agreed! Don't feed the trolls (literally and figuratively) Arazi Feb 2016 #11
I agree. Responding only pulls us down and to no avail. PWPippin Feb 2016 #12
My IL went from 0 to 125 in 8 months Flying Squirrel Feb 2016 #14
I have over 300 on total ignore. I still discover a few new ones every day. Elmer S. E. Dump Feb 2016 #27
I went from 0 to 60 or so in about four months MissDeeds Feb 2016 #90
I consider it good exercise. Cassiopeia Feb 2016 #15
Good post.. tommcc99 Feb 2016 #16
Thank you for your Marty McGraw Feb 2016 #33
We all do what we can.. tommcc99 Feb 2016 #130
Nice Op Ned, I feel the same way. We should just be able to to hit the hide button on litlbilly Feb 2016 #17
The only thing that matters are the votes Paulie Feb 2016 #18
K&R good suggestion. Definitely r more productive actions 2 take. highprincipleswork Feb 2016 #19
It's making me sad but you are right. redwitch Feb 2016 #20
Agreed, their tactics suck...n/t humbled_opinion Feb 2016 #21
I used to have Lazy Daisy Feb 2016 #22
You said it! Marty McGraw Feb 2016 #36
.+10 840high Feb 2016 #73
K & R Petrushka Feb 2016 #23
Good post. One slight constructive criticism. Bubzer Feb 2016 #24
You're right Ned_Devine Feb 2016 #26
"I'm not even sure what the other people in the HRC camp want and I don't really care." Elmer S. E. Dump Feb 2016 #25
You are so right. They 840high Feb 2016 #74
And their romanticization of electing the first woman president Elmer S. E. Dump Feb 2016 #75
Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhh LiberalLovinLug Feb 2016 #99
Ha! Silly me!! Elmer S. E. Dump Feb 2016 #100
Carly Fiorina could have been the first female too TexasBushwhacker Feb 2016 #118
Isn't it odd that no media will ever mention what's really happening? Elmer S. E. Dump Feb 2016 #121
!! lmbradford Feb 2016 #28
Solidarity! mountain grammy Feb 2016 #30
A much needed post. Segami Feb 2016 #31
Thanks Ned_Devine Feb 2016 #35
Here's some advice that should help... FailureToCommunicate Feb 2016 #32
amen!! ellennelle Feb 2016 #34
Checking in The Traveler Feb 2016 #37
Kicked and recommended! Enthusiast Feb 2016 #38
Amen, Just Get Moving for Bernie McKim Feb 2016 #39
thank you! grasswire Feb 2016 #40
Checking in! Thanks for this Arazi Feb 2016 #41
I hear ya, but HRC supporters must be engaged--a certain proportion might change their minds. cer7711 Feb 2016 #42
You described exactly my thought. macandsandy Feb 2016 #132
Agree! in_cog_ni_to Feb 2016 #43
I agree with everything you just wrote Ned_Devine Feb 2016 #141
Your OP stated it perfectly. in_cog_ni_to Feb 2016 #142
I'm taking my own advice and putting many of them on "full ignore" Ned_Devine Feb 2016 #144
They certainly aren't progressive, or even left of center. TIME TO PANIC Feb 2016 #45
Thanks! Punkingal Feb 2016 #46
Wow! 7,777 posts for you Punkingal! Ned_Devine Feb 2016 #47
And it only took me 14+ years! LOL Punkingal Feb 2016 #54
I don't really understand how any self-respecting Democrat could support Hillary over Bernie. Deadshot Feb 2016 #48
Thank you........................... turbinetree Feb 2016 #49
Great post! Major Hogwash Feb 2016 #50
K&R nt Live and Learn Feb 2016 #51
pearls to swine - more than enough great info has been offeredThe supporters SoLeftIAmRight Feb 2016 #53
knr nt retrowire Feb 2016 #55
To all of my fellow democrats... Firebrand Gary Feb 2016 #57
Love you Gary, and I respect your attempt to reach out. HeartoftheMidwest Feb 2016 #92
+1 Well said. Beartracks Feb 2016 #135
Check mate! Ernest T Feb 2016 #58
I have a good many Duppers Feb 2016 #59
We're marching for Bernie from the State House in Boston on Saturday! Ned_Devine Feb 2016 #67
Thank you! Duppers Feb 2016 #69
Yea! Bangbangdem Feb 2016 #60
Checking in, Ned. We're solid! PatrickforO Feb 2016 #65
Much appreciated! Ned_Devine Feb 2016 #72
Checking in and saying thanks! Lifelong Protester Feb 2016 #66
Thank you! Ned_Devine Feb 2016 #68
Checking in. Green Texan Feb 2016 #70
Thank you. K/R 840high Feb 2016 #71
Checking in... Contrary1 Feb 2016 #76
Thank you! Ned_Devine Feb 2016 #77
K&R CharlotteVale Feb 2016 #78
Yep. Nothing to be gained by feeding the trolls. GoneFishin Feb 2016 #79
Yes! I'm recovered from my "bothered" OP LiberalElite Feb 2016 #80
I've got 80 of them on ignore - TBF Feb 2016 #81
Before I click on an OP LiberalElite Feb 2016 #82
'Her' group must be getting pretty small... freebrew Feb 2016 #87
Yes. That LiberalElite Feb 2016 #88
I shall not stand silent while they keep up with the lies RoccoR5955 Feb 2016 #83
I have learned that those 20% here do not care about improving the lives of others, polly7 Feb 2016 #84
Kicked and recommended. Uncle Joe Feb 2016 #85
time heals wounds and wounds heels stupidicus Feb 2016 #86
As fellow Bostonian... Rider3 Feb 2016 #89
K&R & Checking in. dchill Feb 2016 #91
Kick! thereismore Feb 2016 #93
I respectfully disagree. davidthegnome Feb 2016 #95
Agree completely. A total waste of time. debunction.junction Feb 2016 #96
True. There are some here sammythecat Feb 2016 #97
HUGE K & R !!! - THANK YOU !!! WillyT Feb 2016 #98
You are NOT alone, Ned_Devine Iwillnevergiveup Feb 2016 #101
Kickin' with gusto! Faux pas Feb 2016 #102
Just to let you know... Thespian2 Feb 2016 #103
Very good advice. democrank Feb 2016 #104
K&R yuiyoshida Feb 2016 #105
I'm with you all the way. Unknown Beatle Feb 2016 #106
I noticed that in full force over the weekend Ned_Devine Feb 2016 #107
There's one in particular Blue_In_AK Feb 2016 #127
I feel compelled to refute the worst nonsense. Betty Karlson Feb 2016 #109
I love sarcasm, but it's lost on them Ned_Devine Feb 2016 #110
People who identify with the party establishment ... Babel_17 Feb 2016 #115
"don't give them the time of day" - too harsh for me (It's 4:47 PM EST) Babel_17 Feb 2016 #111
Beautifully put jonestonesusa Feb 2016 #113
Big time! Ned_Devine Feb 2016 #114
DO NOT FEED THE TROLLS! n/t Admiral Loinpresser Feb 2016 #119
Solidarity! Political_Junkie Feb 2016 #120
It's tempting but we must think BIG YourAMIGO Feb 2016 #122
Bernie can run on his record libodem Feb 2016 #123
I sometimes read their posts and shake my head, Blue_In_AK Feb 2016 #125
Thank you pdsimdars Feb 2016 #126
you make a lot of sense dana_b Feb 2016 #128
You are obviously not alone. :-) eom flor-de-jasmim Feb 2016 #129
The first thing I do if I venture over to GD-P... mak3cats Feb 2016 #131
Well said warrprayer Feb 2016 #134
anti-Change Jezza Feb 2016 #139
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