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Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
16. My observation on DU members:
Mon Jul 13, 2015, 01:28 AM
Jul 2015

The ones that agree with you think you are a fine person and an asset to the group.
The ones that disagree with you think you need to be arrested and charged with high treason and sent to Guantanamo. Or failing that, at the very least you MUST be silenced. (This is usually accomplished with a flood of insulting accusations extrapolated from, but often unjustified by what you actually posted. Things along the lines of "You disagree with me, then you must be a ____ (select from: racist/Republican/misogynist/child molester/Nazi/troll/other).&quot

My solution is to treat DU as largely read-only. I find a lot good information here, and links to articles that are interesting and informative. But posting seldom accomplishes anything except attracting hostile reactions from people who fall into the second of the two aforementioned categories. Sometimes I go months without posting. In fact, at one time, long ago, I went so many years without posting to DU I forgot my username and password and had to create a new one. (A shame too. I had tens of thousands of posts by then.)

The important thing is not expect to change anyone's mind. Speak your piece, and let the outcome take care of itself. A good way to practice that discipline is to post something and then NEVER go back to look at that thread to see how people replied to your post. You said your piece, you don't need to care what anyone else thinks of it. (You may care, but you don't really NEED to care.)

Remember, while you are trying to show somebody the error of their ways, that same person is trying to show YOU the error of YOUR ways. That's how flame wars get started. Life's too short. Shake it off and walk away.

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So, you were attacking Hillary in the Hill-Hole Demeter Jul 2015 #1
First time that's happened MannyGoldstein Jul 2015 #2
Oh it happened to me months ago. At first I was butthurt. silvershadow Jul 2015 #3
Can we watch through the window? n/t SusanaMontana41 Jul 2015 #24
Money in politics is for the first time going to be a huge issue in this campaign. Bernie is sabrina 1 Jul 2015 #4
What we are trying to avoid here TM99 Jul 2015 #5
+1 daleanime Jul 2015 #11
I think groups exist for the purpose of allowing members to support each other and have discussions merrily Jul 2015 #30
It sounds like you and I are in agreement TM99 Jul 2015 #35
You realize that you are a member of a not very exclusive club tularetom Jul 2015 #6
Dustlawyer is in good company - they've (the HRC group) even banned Omaha Steve. kath Jul 2015 #10
Are you saying OS is banned from DU or just HRC group? snagglepuss Jul 2015 #15
From the HRC group. Very sorry I wasn't more clear. kath Jul 2015 #18
They banned Omaha Steve? awoke_in_2003 Jul 2015 #22
it's not unusual... bbgrunt Jul 2015 #7
TOS rpannier Jul 2015 #8
I did it the other way round. SoapBox Jul 2015 #9
I did as well. Sherman A1 Jul 2015 #32
Someone talking about this thread says you're a "dink" progree Jul 2015 #12
That someone sports a Bernie avatar. delrem Jul 2015 #23
If it's anything like the BOG it's a badge of honor. Spitfire of ATJ Jul 2015 #13
Gort booted from the bog back in 2013 Scootaloo Jul 2015 #27
I got booted by pointing out that it was hypocritical of Republicans to criticize "Obamacare"... Spitfire of ATJ Jul 2015 #28
This was my DIY fix back in april. I've seen much less Discussionist garbage since Scootaloo Jul 2015 #14
I tried using trash forum a week or so ago, and it didn't work for me passiveporcupine Jul 2015 #21
My observation on DU members: Binkie The Clown Jul 2015 #16
Good advice, Binkie. (But your avatar is terrifying.) senz Jul 2015 #19
I posted a sincere message re the evolution of my opinion of Hillary senz Jul 2015 #17
You could have posted the same material--and still can--in GD Primary. merrily Jul 2015 #31
Bravo, JackInGreen Jul 2015 #20
Every group bears this heading: merrily Jul 2015 #25
It helps if you remember Hillary is not the enemy. Kalidurga Jul 2015 #26
I have a concern with this too passiveporcupine Jul 2015 #29
Thanks for your efforts dreamnightwind Jul 2015 #33
This banning, alerting, tattling seems so juvenile to me. democrank Jul 2015 #34
Me, too vt_native Jul 2015 #36
Sorry y'all, this is just getting TM99 Jul 2015 #37
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