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passiveporcupine

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29. I have a concern with this too
Mon Jul 13, 2015, 02:50 AM
Jul 2015
"I also have a problem with these groups, the HRC group, Bernie group... Do we really want an area where like minded people only can discuss what they already agree on?"


I can see having a group of like supporters, to help boost moral for that group. But what I don't get, and I am sorry, I've not read enough threads from the Bernie group, so I hope I don't say something wrong here...but everyone can read what we post in these groups. They are included on the home page and unless someone has them hidden, everyone can read them. I find it really alarming that it's OK to insult the opposition team, and I hate even using that term, but that's what it's become, hasn't it? I posted in a Hillary group thread today to thank the members there for not continuing to insult Bernie supporters as the OP of that thread started out. I don't think we should be able to do it any more than they should.

Of course, I was immediately banned from posting in that group...but unfortunately, I can still see their threads and the insults.

One member there was angry that I'd bring it up when so many of the Hillary supporters have been attacked and insulted by Bernie supporters. I don't know if that's true or not, but if it is, we need to stop doing that too. Even in this group. And we should be open to them posting in our threads as long as they are being respectful and not trying to trash Bernie.

It is not helping the democratic party to have a feud that splits us down the middle.

So right now, each group can continue to insult the other, and then ban them from posting in that group, if they try to comment on it. Is that even fair? I can see not going into that group to bash their candidate...that is an insult in itself. We need to respect their right not to have those kinds of threads in their group. But we all need to stop this rising tide of disrespecting and insulting people who don't believe as we do.

I am sorry I even mentioned it in that thread as it was not taken as I intended...feelings are too raw, and I can understand that, in hind sight. But I was bothered by the "insults" in that thread and didn't know how to address it. It doesn't do us any good to keep building up the us against them wall and disrespecting each other, even if we keep it in our own group. It's not really just our group. Anyone can read it.

Attack the message, not the messenger...why is that so hard to do? Discuss the candidates and their policies and history, rather than being snide and rude and disrespectful when talking about DUers.

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So, you were attacking Hillary in the Hill-Hole Demeter Jul 2015 #1
First time that's happened MannyGoldstein Jul 2015 #2
Oh it happened to me months ago. At first I was butthurt. silvershadow Jul 2015 #3
Can we watch through the window? n/t SusanaMontana41 Jul 2015 #24
Money in politics is for the first time going to be a huge issue in this campaign. Bernie is sabrina 1 Jul 2015 #4
What we are trying to avoid here TM99 Jul 2015 #5
+1 daleanime Jul 2015 #11
I think groups exist for the purpose of allowing members to support each other and have discussions merrily Jul 2015 #30
It sounds like you and I are in agreement TM99 Jul 2015 #35
You realize that you are a member of a not very exclusive club tularetom Jul 2015 #6
Dustlawyer is in good company - they've (the HRC group) even banned Omaha Steve. kath Jul 2015 #10
Are you saying OS is banned from DU or just HRC group? snagglepuss Jul 2015 #15
From the HRC group. Very sorry I wasn't more clear. kath Jul 2015 #18
They banned Omaha Steve? awoke_in_2003 Jul 2015 #22
it's not unusual... bbgrunt Jul 2015 #7
TOS rpannier Jul 2015 #8
I did it the other way round. SoapBox Jul 2015 #9
I did as well. Sherman A1 Jul 2015 #32
Someone talking about this thread says you're a "dink" progree Jul 2015 #12
That someone sports a Bernie avatar. delrem Jul 2015 #23
If it's anything like the BOG it's a badge of honor. Spitfire of ATJ Jul 2015 #13
Gort booted from the bog back in 2013 Scootaloo Jul 2015 #27
I got booted by pointing out that it was hypocritical of Republicans to criticize "Obamacare"... Spitfire of ATJ Jul 2015 #28
This was my DIY fix back in april. I've seen much less Discussionist garbage since Scootaloo Jul 2015 #14
I tried using trash forum a week or so ago, and it didn't work for me passiveporcupine Jul 2015 #21
My observation on DU members: Binkie The Clown Jul 2015 #16
Good advice, Binkie. (But your avatar is terrifying.) senz Jul 2015 #19
I posted a sincere message re the evolution of my opinion of Hillary senz Jul 2015 #17
You could have posted the same material--and still can--in GD Primary. merrily Jul 2015 #31
Bravo, JackInGreen Jul 2015 #20
Every group bears this heading: merrily Jul 2015 #25
It helps if you remember Hillary is not the enemy. Kalidurga Jul 2015 #26
I have a concern with this too passiveporcupine Jul 2015 #29
Thanks for your efforts dreamnightwind Jul 2015 #33
This banning, alerting, tattling seems so juvenile to me. democrank Jul 2015 #34
Me, too vt_native Jul 2015 #36
Sorry y'all, this is just getting TM99 Jul 2015 #37
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