Coping with Divorce or Separation

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anybody here? I just got dumped via email from my husband of 30 years 37 babydollhead Mar 2021 Jul 2025 20 30373

Looking for some advice. We are out of our depths and quite lost at sea...read on. 37 NewHendoLib Oct 2022 Oct 2022 27 37796

Knowing when to walk away. 36 a la izquierda Apr 2014 Apr 2022 3 30168

RECEIVED FIRST HALF OF SETTLEMENT TODAY! 22 elleng Dec 2011 Jul 2014 2 12989

I don't think this group will last, but it was a blessing to me when I needed it most. 20 blondeatlast May 2011 Mar 2018 7 18158

Divorce sucks. 20 Blue_Roses Jul 2017 Aug 2025 3 22625

We have an agreement, signed and sealed, first payment w/in 5-10 days, 18 elleng Dec 2011 Dec 2011 2 13083

i'm done holding my marriage together with duct tape and chicken wire 18 fizzgig May 2014 Oct 2014 0 11092

Anyone here? 15 matt819 Nov 2017 Dec 2018 1 8531

I know this isn't about me, it's my brother… May I ask??? 14 MrMickeysMom Jun 2015 Apr 2016 0 11315

Daughter, A, asked me to return to her in NJ, 14 elleng Dec 2015 Dec 2015 1 12933

I'm going to get a divorce. 12 alittlelark Jun 2012 Jul 2013 0 11825

Damn this is confusing 12 clyrc Nov 2012 Nov 2013 0 10977

i'm just tired. sick and tired. 12 mopinko May 2015 May 2015 2 10170

My son is divorced only three months and he's already engaged and I'm worried. 11 no_hypocrisy Apr 2012 Jul 2012 0 11352

This message was self-deleted by its author 11 silentwarrior Jun 2012 Jun 2012 7 9485

What is the obligation to notify an ex that spouse is dying? 11 Grasswire2 Oct 2019 Oct 2019 2 13735

Got my first settlement check today! 10 maddezmom Jan 2012 Feb 2012 0 10257

Abusive husband 10 Holly_Hobby Jul 2012 Oct 2012 0 8088

Going through divorce 10 harun Sep 2012 Jan 2013 1 10107

One holiday down, two to go 10 clyrc Nov 2012 Dec 2012 0 10255

so, my ex got married this weekend. 10 mopinko Jul 2018 Sep 2018 12 11595

Terrified and depressed! 10 Backseat Driver Nov 2019 Nov 2019 6 12055

A cautionary tale 8 av8rdave Jan 2012 Jan 2012 0 7550

Did you relocate? 8 SheilaT Oct 2012 Jul 2013 0 6255

I just got kicked out of a ten year relationship. 8 Lady Freedom Returns Jul 2013 Aug 2013 3 9549

getting a mortgage based on alimony payments. 8 mopinko Sep 2014 Sep 2014 0 8399

My son just told me his wife asked for a divorce this morning. 7 intheflow Dec 2014 Feb 2015 0 9719

well the big day is on the calendar. 7 mopinko Nov 2015 Dec 2015 2 6609

I am so peeved at my ex and his lack of support.... 7 usedtobedemgurl Apr 2016 Apr 2016 0 6133

Coping with Divorce or Separation Continued...

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We seperated & divorced more then 4 yrs ago. Why do I still dream about her? 7 irisblue May 2017 May 2017 1 8695

In order to NOT be thought of as a good guy, 6 elleng Feb 2012 Feb 2012 0 9073

Taking the dive 5 AwakeAtLast Oct 2014 Dec 2014 1 4828

What is a balanced solution to when a father discovers he is not the DNA father? 5 SaveTheMackerel Feb 2016 Feb 2017 0 9650

When Ex & I were together, I carried the then 'domestic partnership insurance' 5 irisblue Aug 2022 Aug 2022 7 5736

Well, waddya know, MAY have been an accident 4 elleng Feb 2012 Feb 2012 0 6677

just when you think it's getting better. 4 mzteris Oct 2012 Oct 2012 0 8375

This message was self-deleted by its author 4 Xyzse Aug 2015 Aug 2015 0 4322

A different kind of parental alienation part 1 4 Grasswire2 Jun 2023 Jun 2023 7 5999

This message was self-deleted by its author 3 salparadise1000 Jun 2012 Jun 2012 0 4800

Love Letters/Wedding Pictures 3 irisblue Oct 2013 Nov 2013 0 4878

I came here looking for some discussion 3 gate of the sun Apr 2014 Apr 2014 1 4711

settlement finally in the works. 3 mopinko Sep 2014 Sep 2014 0 3967

Choose wisely 3 mia Jun 2022 Jun 2022 13 4798

So this haunts me. A lot. If I could dance, I know where I would do it. 3 Gore1FL Jun 2023 Oct 2023 8 10974

If anyone is married to a cheater --- 2 jillan Feb 2012 Jul 2012 0 7928

Cool thing just happened! 2 elleng Sep 2013 Sep 2013 0 4597

surprise surprise. my cobra is affordable. 2 mopinko Jan 2016 Jan 2016 2 4862

The Entire Netflix History of Us (NYT Fashion and Style) Sad breakup story 2 Gomez163 May 2016 May 2016 1 7817

Shame kills. 2 BootinUp Sep 2016 Oct 2016 0 6962

Animal Shelter fundraiser, your Exs name in the litter pan 2 irisblue Feb 2021 Feb 2021 4 18269

UGH!!!! I need this to be OVER NOW!! Please send me good juju... 2 FirstLight May 2025 May 2025 10 1592

I am at the end of my rope.. need help 😔 2 FirstLight Jul 2025 Aug 2025 6 1995

This message was self-deleted by its author 1 silentwarrior Jun 2012 Jun 2012 0 6261

This message was self-deleted by its author 1 silentwarrior Jun 2012 Jun 2012 1 4214

This message was self-deleted by its author 1 DiverDave Oct 2012 Oct 2012 0 3671

This message was self-deleted by its author 1 silentwarrior Jan 2013 Jan 2013 0 3432

I feel a sort of annoyed difference about the ex 1 irisblue Nov 2014 Nov 2014 0 6503

This message was self-deleted by its author 1 TEB Apr 2017 Apr 2017 0 8029

This came up on my autoshuffle this morning 1 irisblue Jun 2020 Jun 2020 3 9860

Coping with Divorce or Separation Continued...

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This message was self-deleted by its author 0 av8rdave Jan 2012 Jan 2012 0 3675

This message was self-deleted by its author 0 salparadise1000 Jun 2012 Jun 2012 0 5898

View profile Love isn’t text messages – its being held, valued and loved! 0 silentwarrior Jan 2013 Jan 2013 0 6243

Beginning of November last year I started dating again 0 JonLP24 Jun 2014 Jun 2014 0 6214

well the numbers come down today. 0 mopinko Aug 2015 Aug 2015 1 6856

This message was self-deleted by its author 0 MattBaggins Oct 2016 Oct 2016 2 3416

I might have figured it out...dream 0 irisblue May 2017 May 2017 0 8641

. Years after a divorce, feelings still happen. I think this song fits here. 0 irisblue Jun 2018 Jun 2018 2 6150

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