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Title of discussion thread	Replies	Author	Start time	Last reply	Recs	Views
Fuck me, man! I don't wish this shit on anyone.	40	Glamrock	Thursday	Sunday	65	3310
I had a post today that was posted just to blow off some steam...	7	Glamrock	Thursday	Friday	31	1355
This message was self-deleted by its author	3	RamblingRose	Apr 21	Apr 21	0	255
My father passed away a couple of hours ago.	45	Dial H For Hero	Mar 6	Mar 24	77	2543
Is there anything in the Covid relief bill that will provide financial assistance...	0	NurseJackie	Mar 11	Mar 11	3	2837
Mom passed early this morning. [View all]	57	MissMillie	Jul 2020	Mar 11	64	2263
My stuff ain't all that	9	Bmoboy	Feb 16	Feb 16	8	1453
FUUUUUUCKK!	26	Glamrock	Jan 2021	Jan 2021	17	994
Thanks for all the kind and uplifting responses DU!	1	Glamrock	Jan 2021	Jan 2021	5	2144
The daily episode of something else that has slipped away.	10	Ilsa	Aug 2020	Jan 2021	3	2531
Doing initial research for In-Home vs Memory Care in a facility... god this is rough.	19	FirstLight	Dec 2020	Jan 2021	12	2048
Kind Ways to Respond When a Person With Dementia Forgets Someone Has Died	5	NurseJackie	Mar 2020	Oct 2020	6	1310
Do old people tend to sleep a lot?	31	CountAllVotes	Aug 2020	Aug 2020	2	1037
Using the Zoom App for face-time w/ Mom	3	MissMillie	Apr 2020	Aug 2020	10	1206
I got to see Mom today	12	MissMillie	Jul 2020	Jul 2020	12	912
Scary news this morning--UPDATE (not good)	21	MissMillie	Apr 2020	Jul 2020	57	3408
"How long do I have to last?" asks Mom	7	MissMillie	Jul 2020	Jul 2020	27	1297
I'm going to get to see my mom Monday	5	MissMillie	Jun 2020	Jun 2020	14	804
Hello everyone	1	bluecollar2	Apr 2020	Apr 2020	1	627
HALLWAY BINGO! (I love this idea so much!)	2	NurseJackie	Apr 2020	Apr 2020	10	1060
I can't help but wonder about Mom's care	1	MissMillie	Mar 2020	Mar 2020	3	746
Taking care of Dad AND trying to keep him safe	3	MissMillie	Mar 2020	Mar 2020	2	912
My book on Aging in Place is available on Amazon!	0	Trueblue Texan	Mar 2020	Mar 2020	7	833
What happens when people who are bipolar develop dementia?	3	Ilsa	Mar 2020	Mar 2020	1	768
My mom's care facility has suspended visits	8	MissMillie	Mar 2020	Mar 2020	12	913
Bad news in the family has turned my MIL into an ugly person.	9	Ilsa	Mar 2020	Mar 2020	3	1004
I MISS MY MOTHER!!!!!!!!	20	MissMillie	Jan 2020	Mar 2020	24	1296
Anyone thinking through a plan for preparing our elder folks for COVID-19?	6	JudyM	Mar 2020	Mar 2020	1	827
My live-in-the-basement MIL has mild dementia,	31	Ilsa	Jan 2020	Feb 2020	9	1918
Should a loved-one who has dementia be corrected when they are wrong about something?	21	NurseJackie	Nov 2019	Feb 2020	11	1464
trying to help/deal with, my almost 99 YO father...	36	Alameda	Mar 2017	Jan 2020	0	5144
Aging in place symposium: planning, spacial justice in aging societies	3	mahina	Oct 2019	Jan 2020	2	886
My mother has Alzheimer's and I just got her one of those robotic cats. [View all]	81	femmedem	Dec 2019	Jan 2020	175	7208
Assisted Care, Hospice, and the financial soaking of the elderly	11	SHRED	Aug 2015	Jan 2020	6	3519
I had a wonderful visit w/ my Mom this past week	7	MissMillie	Nov 2019	Jan 2020	20	1057
Losing a parent before you lose the parent	10	MissMillie	Feb 2019	Dec 2019	11	2255
Elder mother-in-law refuses to move to assisted living	14	groundloop	Oct 2019	Oct 2019	9	1325
Is there an easy way to get rid of urine odors?	18	NurseJackie	Oct 2019	Oct 2019	0	1179
executor of will question...	14	samnsara	Sep 2019	Sep 2019	0	1238
My sister gave me a heartbreaking report about Mom today	8	MissMillie	Aug 2019	Sep 2019	15	1549
We admitted Mom to a long-term care facility Friday	14	MissMillie	Jun 2019	Sep 2019	23	2315
Yesterday was my parents' wedding anniversary	4	MissMillie	Sep 2019	Sep 2019	6	1046
my dad just passed. at 9:40 am today :( My two sisters are trying to challange my executorship..	42	samnsara	Apr 2019	Aug 2019	23	2971
Mom was taken to the hospital yesterday	5	MissMillie	Jun 2019	Jun 2019	17	1750
Sadly, my live-in mother-in-law's dementia is getting worse.	11	Ilsa	Jun 2019	Jun 2019	3	1786
Power of attorney question	12	narnian60	Apr 2018	Jun 2019	1	3000
What VA benefits can I get for my father?	18	samnsara	Feb 2017	Jun 2019	3	3193
Mom fell and broke her ankle yesterday	4	MissMillie	Jun 2019	Jun 2019	4	1374
Best news ever: Dad's biopsy came back negative	7	MissMillie	Jun 2019	Jun 2019	12	1336
How to find in-home help for dad?	5	Blue_playwright	May 2019	May 2019	0	1463
Dad has opted to get the biopsy	0	MissMillie	May 2019	May 2019	2	1106
Dad saw the gastroenterologist this week	9	MissMillie	May 2019	May 2019	8	1623
Update on Dad	4	MissMillie	Apr 2019	May 2019	4	1305
Dad's gall bladder surgery may have revealed something even more serious	9	MissMillie	Apr 2019	Apr 2019	7	1688
Sometimes you just gotta vent	4	CDerekGo	Apr 2019	Apr 2019	8	1807
Do I risk pissing him off and clean, or do I turn my back and shrug?	7	phylny	Sep 2014	Feb 2019	0	2922
Home medical alert systems?	2	left-of-center2012	Jan 2019	Jan 2019	0	1347
I feel resentment toward my sister	6	Aerows	Oct 2014	Dec 2018	5	3785
has anyone applied for, or got Hardship Mail Delivery?	5	samnsara	Mar 2017	Dec 2018	1	7487
Please DONT fund me.	4	notdarkyet	Sep 2018	Sep 2018	5	2711
Caregiver sources website	0	left-of-center2012	Jul 2018	Jul 2018	2	1699
My mom has been in several facilities because of a stroke and then because	6	Maraya1969	Jun 2018	Jun 2018	0	2127
Nursing homes in New Mexico rank at the bottom	2	left-of-center2012	May 2018	May 2018	0	1638
Sorry for the upcoming rambling. What can I do to give my money from a family trust to a charity instead of my	6	Maraya1969	Jan 2016	Apr 2018	0	3740
Only child dealing with parent that lives out of state	7	PossiblePasts	Jun 2017	Apr 2018	0	6140
how to deal with a defiant elderly parent...	11	samnsara	Feb 2018	Mar 2018	5	2754
"This Is My Life Now" -- An Interview with a Nursing Home Resident	2	left-of-center2012	Dec 2017	Dec 2017	2	1738
Looking for a decent alert system	2	SHRED	Nov 2017	Nov 2017	0	1825
Just curious about everyone's story. How many are	27	Habibi	Jun 2014	Apr 2017	1	5790
Countdown to Mom moving in --	7	Hell Hath No Fury	Dec 2014	Feb 2017	2	2795
"The chair incident" - when Dad falls on the floor	6	Aerows	Aug 2015	Feb 2017	0	2670
is anyone dealing with a personality disordered parent?	7	starshine00	Jan 2017	Feb 2017	0	2907
Drove home from Mom's Assisted Living Facility in tears today	16	Novara	Apr 2015	Feb 2017	5	3456
This Is Everything That’s Wrong With Caregiving In America Today	0	sheshe2	Sep 2016	Sep 2016	3	1751
Too late for me, but I have a few thoughts.	3	ginnyinWI	Aug 2016	Aug 2016	6	2110
New group! Welcome!	13	politicat	Jun 2014	Jan 2016	5	3434
Hello, I just discovered this group.	2	Delmette	Nov 2015	Nov 2015	1	2155
This message was self-deleted by its author	2	KMOD	Jan 2015	Sep 2015	1	2159
Problems with dementia facilities -- idiocy or greed?	1	alcina	Jul 2015	Jul 2015	1	2161
Visiting a Gentleman with Alzheimer’s Disease	1	uppityperson	Jun 2015	Jun 2015	1	2405