Elder-caregivers Discussion Forum - Democratic Underground Forums

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I think I'm in over my head 17 Niagara Jul 1 Thursday 19 831

I'm thinking about getting an electric wheelchair or scooter to go around town in. 6 Jacson6 Jun 12 Jun 12 2 785

Elder-accessible day-to-day technology 9 Orrex Jan 2025 Jan 2026 3 3495

Fuck me, man! I don't wish this shit on anyone. 47 Glamrock May 2021 Jun 2025 67 25944

The hidden toll of caregiving on young adults - NBC News 1 TexasTowelie Apr 2025 Apr 2025 6 2545

My mom said the worst thing she's ever said to me. 31 LudwigPastorius Feb 2025 Feb 2025 20 11604

What the heck does a Senior individual do to make sure they will have someone oversee their needs when the time comes? 8 BlueAllTheWay Feb 2025 Feb 2025 9 3938

The week from hell 12 Joe Nation Oct 2024 Oct 2024 24 5778

Embarking on this terrible journey 10 Randomthought Aug 2024 Aug 2024 10 4675

Should I be angry by the lack of support my wife's family is willing to contribute? 10 Joe Nation Aug 2024 Aug 2024 12 4913

We admitted Dad to a skilled nursing facility yesterday 1 MissMillie Aug 2024 Aug 2024 13 2493

Article from the post: My husband was slowing down. He needed protecting. 0 ZERTErYNOthe Jul 2024 Jul 2024 10 2717

Dad, almost 93, being referred to cardiologist 5 MissMillie Jun 2024 Jun 2024 2 3212

Has anyone used Care.com? 2 kozar May 2024 May 2024 0 3341

Not sure what to do for my brother. 17 58Sunliner May 2024 May 2024 19 6920

I never wanted to come here.......I need it now. Husband is losing his mind....short term memory 32 a kennedy Jun 2022 May 2024 21 17375

We moved Dad out of his home today 10 MissMillie Jan 2024 Mar 2024 14 6319

WaPo: DOZENS OF ASSISTED-LIVING RESIDENTS DIED AFTER WANDERING AWAY UNNOTICED 4 ZERTErYNOthe Dec 2023 Dec 2023 9 5278

100 years young 7 Lilaclady Apr 2023 Nov 2023 10 5687

Is there a discussion regarding life insurance matters somewhere on DU? 3 Grasswire2 Oct 2023 Oct 2023 1 5350

My book on Aging in Place is available on Amazon! 9 Trueblue Texan Mar 2020 Oct 2023 9 9827

I'm in complete despair 36 ThoughtCriminal Sep 2023 Oct 2023 40 18657

My dad is 92 today 15 MissMillie Jun 2023 Jun 2023 44 7729

'We Thought Within a Year, She Would Be Gone.' When Mom's Care Costs Over $1 Million. 0 question everything Jun 2023 Jun 2023 14 6914

Committed to a date for memory care facility today 39 leighbythesea2 Mar 2023 Mar 2023 31 17359

We are moving mom to a care facility 7 Beatlelvr Jan 2023 Feb 2023 13 6607

I will never be an elder-caregiver again. [View all] 149 Ilsa Nov 2022 Nov 2022 195 70644

Anyone know about "wards of the state" 12 Takket Aug 2022 Nov 2022 10 6479

Anyone ever go crazy in front of the hospice people? 9 Ilsa Sep 2022 Oct 2022 12 8351

I am seeing clips of Charles talking about his Mother, I cannot imagine me there 4 irisblue Sep 2022 Sep 2022 4 6315

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ICYMI: Women Just Took Another Hit By vetoing investment in the care economy, Republicans once aga 7 niyad Sep 2022 Sep 2022 7 7676

Some lessons learned - dealing with family stuff 14 ZERTErYNOthe Jul 2022 Aug 2022 28 10804

Looking for ideas on how to keep a fidgety senior from getting into trouble. My 100 y/o stepdad 12 RamblingRose May 2022 Jun 2022 3 7681

This message was self-deleted by its author 14 CountAllVotes May 2022 May 2022 4 8868

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Can anyone tell me how much help they receive from hospice at their home? 12 Ilsa Apr 2022 May 2022 4 9434

Update: My 100 y/o stepdad fell & broke his hip yesterday. He's having surgery this morning at 8:30a 10 RamblingRose May 2022 May 2022 8 7304

Woudn't follow instructions 22 CountAllVotes May 2022 May 2022 23 8358

This message was self-deleted by its author 9 left-of-center2012 Apr 2022 Apr 2022 3 6273

Is there a phone volunteer service... 7 OneGrassRoot Mar 2022 Apr 2022 4 5853

Anyone have experience with transitioning aging parents from senior apartments to a home? Emotional 6 GPV Mar 2022 Mar 2022 9 6405

Just curious about everyone's story. How many are 28 Habibi Jun 2014 Mar 2022 3 20762

Mom passed early this morning. [View all] 59 MissMillie Jul 2020 Feb 2022 64 27043

I MISS MY MOTHER!!!!!!!! 22 MissMillie Jan 2020 Feb 2022 25 12104

This message was self-deleted by its author 26 CountAllVotes Feb 2022 Feb 2022 11 11597

What to look for when 'shopping' for an independent/assisted living facility 9 RamblingRose Jan 2022 Feb 2022 2 7366

You never know when it will be the last time you say you love them. 28 sheshe2 Jan 2022 Jan 2022 70 11734

Basic phone for hearing impaired ? 7 left-of-center2012 Aug 2021 Jan 2022 0 6701

Elder care, such as it is 12 NQAS Nov 2021 Dec 2021 6 6649

My parent is having a hard time opening OTC childproof medication bottles 11 RamblingRose Sep 2021 Sep 2021 1 8132

This message was self-deleted by its author 12 CountAllVotes Jul 2021 Aug 2021 16 8735

This message was self-deleted by its author 5 bucolic_frolic Jul 2021 Jul 2021 2 5720

Travel insurance for elders coming to the US from overseas 2 MerryHolidays May 2021 May 2021 1 7762

I had a post today that was posted just to blow off some steam... 7 Glamrock May 2021 May 2021 32 11067

This message was self-deleted by its author 3 RamblingRose Apr 2021 Apr 2021 0 4398

My father passed away a couple of hours ago. 45 Dial H For Hero Mar 2021 Mar 2021 77 18688

Is there anything in the Covid relief bill that will provide financial assistance... 0 NurseJackie Mar 2021 Mar 2021 3 8676

My stuff ain't all that 9 Bmoboy Feb 2021 Feb 2021 9 7604

FUUUUUUCKK! 26 Glamrock Jan 2021 Jan 2021 18 10430

Thanks for all the kind and uplifting responses DU! 1 Glamrock Jan 2021 Jan 2021 5 6175

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The daily episode of something else that has slipped away. 10 Ilsa Aug 2020 Jan 2021 3 9410

Doing initial research for In-Home vs Memory Care in a facility... god this is rough. 19 FirstLight Dec 2020 Jan 2021 13 10393

Kind Ways to Respond When a Person With Dementia Forgets Someone Has Died 5 NurseJackie Mar 2020 Oct 2020 6 6885

Do old people tend to sleep a lot? 31 CountAllVotes Aug 2020 Aug 2020 2 14201

Using the Zoom App for face-time w/ Mom 3 MissMillie Apr 2020 Aug 2020 10 5462

I got to see Mom today 12 MissMillie Jul 2020 Jul 2020 12 7280

Scary news this morning--UPDATE (not good) 21 MissMillie Apr 2020 Jul 2020 57 12419

"How long do I have to last?" asks Mom 7 MissMillie Jul 2020 Jul 2020 27 6569

I'm going to get to see my mom Monday 5 MissMillie Jun 2020 Jun 2020 14 5748

Hello everyone 1 bluecollar2 Apr 2020 Apr 2020 1 4401

HALLWAY BINGO! (I love this idea so much!) 2 NurseJackie Apr 2020 Apr 2020 10 5174

I can't help but wonder about Mom's care 1 MissMillie Mar 2020 Mar 2020 3 4669

Taking care of Dad AND trying to keep him safe 3 MissMillie Mar 2020 Mar 2020 2 5324

What happens when people who are bipolar develop dementia? 3 Ilsa Mar 2020 Mar 2020 1 5212

My mom's care facility has suspended visits 8 MissMillie Mar 2020 Mar 2020 12 6299

Bad news in the family has turned my MIL into an ugly person. 9 Ilsa Mar 2020 Mar 2020 3 7124

Anyone thinking through a plan for preparing our elder folks for COVID-19? 6 JudyM Mar 2020 Mar 2020 1 6194

My live-in-the-basement MIL has mild dementia, 31 Ilsa Jan 2020 Feb 2020 9 16173

Should a loved-one who has dementia be corrected when they are wrong about something? 21 NurseJackie Nov 2019 Feb 2020 11 11383

trying to help/deal with, my almost 99 YO father... 36 Alameda Mar 2017 Jan 2020 0 20159

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